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18 Jul 2005

I'm so lonely that at times I want to kill myself, this past weekend I almost succeeded.

I live with my fiance,we never get 2 do anything together,I get home, alone,until he feels like coming home, we don't have a sex life, the times we do he finishes within a minute, leaving me frustrated.I'm not to complain.

He always expects me 2 be in cheery mood, I'm finding it so hard to do that, I it hurt just thinking of what his doing..

I feel his cheating on me, ofcourse he denies it, he leaves his shorts on the bathroom floor for me to pick up, at times they are stinky.
I once sat in a pub, just 4 company, 2 hours later I arrived home and he beat me up.

This weekend a few woman friends and I had a chat about our sex lives, I had nothing to comment about as I don't know when was the last time I had sex.

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01 Jan 0001

From your description, it's hard to understan why you would want to live with a person such as you describe, much less to have them as a fiancee. And if he beats you, he is a physical as well as a mental abuser --- leave him. Call POWA for specific advice and support, and set yourself free from this loser.
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