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13 Dec 2005

loving
why is it, that we humans find it so hard to love reckless and with total abandon. why is it we cannot leave the past in the past and not cloud a new love with an old experience? people say forgive and forget and yes the mind and years move on but the heart does not, or shall i say, the heart cannot forget, it lives in the shadow of past pain/pains and guards itself relentlessly, how then can one love more than ever or deeper than before (to coin a phrase) or are we all merely advertisements for our past and reflections of our pain?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

The onl;y way to successfully avoid being hurt in love, is to never ever love at all, and that would be a far greater hurt
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