Curious that nobody amongst our other readers has bothered to respond to this mesage. I don't quite understand your rather interesting question. Whether or not you became involved in the rebound, is hardly relevant any more ( too late to avoid rebounding ) --- he sounds as loving as you could wish for --- to you not love him ? Or has this changed ? Or do you simply respect that, had you met someone else, under different circumstances, you might have been even hap[pier and feel more in love ? Wouldn't marriage counselling be a good idea for both of you ? To understand yourselves and each other bgetter, and see what can be worked out ?