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19 Jul 2010

Lying girlfriend
Hi, my girlfriend for three years sometimes lies to me about her where abouts. It is the 3rd time its happening now. On Saturday I booked her in for a spa treatment that started in the morning untill about 4pm. She called me and said she was going to relax at home. When I called in the evening she did not answer her phone, she had gone to a party with her two cousins. I borrowed her my car to use for a while. She then asked her brother to lie to me and say he is not home if I tried to call him wanting to talk to her. When I called her cousin, the one she had gone with to the party, she lied and said they were not together. Today she tells me she lied because she did not want to tell me that she is out late with my car. The other time she had gone out with some other guy and lied as well. I love this lady but I get so hurt when I find out that she is lying to me. I need your advice
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like you are spoiling her with treats and favours - does she do the same for you, or is she entirely a Receiver and a User ? I hear that you love her, and you show it in your actions. I don't hear anything that suggests she loves you ( or anyone except herself ), and her behaviour, as you describe it, does not suggest love.
Think seriously about whether she deserves our love
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