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29 Mar 2007

male issues and sex?
Hi guys its me again, my man and i got this awesome flat we moving in on the weekend, this morning he woke me up at 4h30 to make love so i said no he carried on trying with me ignoring him untill my alarm went off and i got up, he also got up and hasn't said a word to me, he stopped at my work just now to pick something up so naturally i asked is he still cross so he all i have to say is if you can't keep me happy now how you going to keep me happy when we get married, and i rejected him so now he is going to show me what rejection is. I was shocked out of mind when he said this and it has been bugging me the whole day,i feel so terrible and as low as anything, worst of all we moving into our new place on the weekend, and i don't want to fight not now not before we start moving, how do i handle without causing a fight. Please help me i have this completely worthless feeling inside of me, and i can't deal with it. What he said relly hurt me in a heavy way.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Its rather pathetic that he was sio selfish, and is now childishly sulking, because you so reasonably didn't feel like waking from a dead sleep to have sex. Ignore his tantrum. What makes him imagine that it is your duty to "keep him happy" by providing for his every daft sexual idea, but that somehow he doesn't see himself as having any duty to keep you happy ?
I agree with Ness, and unusually, disagree with Paul. Re-evaluate carefully whether you want to marry someone so childish and petulant
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