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04 Mar 2004

matric banquet
hi,pls help with this,,i started dating this guy who is in matric,since the end of january this yr.
the thing is this,,yesterday we were having a serious discussion,,,and then he told me he needs to tell me something,,,he said that he'll be taking one of his female frends to his banquet,coz he had asked her to accompany him since last yr,,and theres no way he can tell her not to go with him anymore,as she is looking forward to it,,,i feel disappointed,coz he was seeing this girl for a short period of time,,,do u think he cud still be having feelings for her,if he wants her to go with him.
and am i rite in feeling disappointed?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear aii,
OK, feel disappointed ( though there will surely be other events he can take you to ) but don't be jealous or otraged --- he's showing himself to be a nice, sensitive, thoughtful guy, the sort all women say they'd prefer --- he's being considerate of the other girl's feelings, and keeping a promise he made --- isn't that the sort of guy you like ? It's got nothing to do with you not being good enough, or he wouldn't waste time saying hello to you, let alone spending so much time with you.
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