Ask an expert
Question

16 Nov 2004

MISCOMMUNICATION, OR WHAT? NEED ADVISE HERE!
My fiancee and I truly love one another, he is the love of my life , my world revolves around him and our child, we communicate by phone or email everyday during working hours and in the evening at home we talk about everything, however the last week, we've been misunderstanding one another on the silliest, most stupid things, I misintepret what he's saying , he doesn't understand where I'm coming from and we just fighting and arguing during the day only to retire in the evening, and communicate well, and make love beautifully and on a very deep emotional level, what could it be? Why are we at constant loggerheads with one another?
Are we talking and communicating too much during the day?
Please Help
Answer 411 views
Expert
CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If you two communicate together so well ( congratulations !) then you can talk this out, too. GO back to first principles in comunication --- don't allow yourself to jump to conclusions. If either of you thinks the other one has said something unking, annoying, whatever --- check it out --- "DId I hear you correctly ? Did you say that .... ? "
And maybe you're right, too. Some folks just try too hard to communicate too much, or at least too often. Try giving it a rest by day, and enjoy the evenings !
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical examination, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.