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10 Mar 2004

My boyfriend's lies
We have been together for almos 4 years.About 3 weeks ago I found out that he was lying to ma about a lot of thing.This really hurt me as I always tried to trust him.I can't trust him now and if I asked him something and he said "I swear on your life" that is the only way for me to beleive me.Last night i said that i need his support in getting me through this because it is going to take me some time to trust him again and hhe said that I don't have his support as he will not sweasr anymore.What do I do????
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear C,
Shouldn't he be swearing on HIS life, and not yours ? If he's being so snooty about not helping you re-gain trust in him, is he really to be trusted ? If he was lying to you about a lot of things that actually matter to you, then the relationship you thought you had, was with someone else, who has since disappeared, and not with him, the real him. He is not doing you a favour in hoping that you will trust him despite all his lies. Who does he think he is ? What point is there is saying with such a big-headed and lying loser ?
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