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15 Jul 2008

My will to go on is challenged
What a painful day it has been for me... I found out my husband was having an affair in March sometime with a woman on facebook who even sent him pictures of her private parts... He deleted her page and assured me that all had stopped... Then she became friends with my brother-in-law & I was told i'm now over-reacting & that nothing's going on... I've kept a casual eye on contacts etc & discovered that 1 of her good friends is now friends with my husband... He says he didnt even know he was friends with her but i smell a rat from the situation... Those are now 2 channels that they could be using to communicate namely my brother-in-law & now this friend... When I brought up the issue last night he said I gutted him because he thought we we're doing fine and that all this was behind us.. What should i do?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

She sounds like the sort of woman who should have a public health warning tattooed across her forehead, like a cigarette packet ! IS your brother-in-law that foolish or desperate, too ? Make it clear to him that after what he was doing, whining won't sort things out --- he was working towards infidelity, and owes it to you to be convincing about ending it and all other such activities
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