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05 Dec 2005
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Nè spoilt?
Good Morning to all of you!
What happened was that G's kids have been especially naughty so much so that the eldest got his first hiding from me this weekend (as well as one from G, which I could not believe as he never smacks his kids).
I also did not take them with me on shopping Saturday only Ne. Mainly coz if I leave her the maids got to watch all the time that she does not get pushed etc. I said they could stay with the maid until they one day know how to behave when we go out.
In annnnnny case on Sunday we went shopping and Ne wanted a little doll that cries when you push it's tummy.
Its only R49.99 so I bought it for her.
But I could see the other kids were talking to G but not so that I could hear.
Last nite he said I cannot give Ne everything her heart desires.....Coz if she does not get what she want's she starts crying and then I give it to her coz her crying is worse...I don't think I do this because some times I do say NO and my NO is my NO.
She's just been an angel for over a week now and I thought she deserved it.
He said what about the other kids ? He say's it's not right towards them.
So every time Ne gets something they must get something ? Maybe I am wrong if I am please tell me. Yes G buys sweets and always for Ne as well, he wont just buy for his kids.
Nou wat nou gemaak ?
What happened was that G's kids have been especially naughty so much so that the eldest got his first hiding from me this weekend (as well as one from G, which I could not believe as he never smacks his kids).
I also did not take them with me on shopping Saturday only Ne. Mainly coz if I leave her the maids got to watch all the time that she does not get pushed etc. I said they could stay with the maid until they one day know how to behave when we go out.
In annnnnny case on Sunday we went shopping and Ne wanted a little doll that cries when you push it's tummy.
Its only R49.99 so I bought it for her.
But I could see the other kids were talking to G but not so that I could hear.
Last nite he said I cannot give Ne everything her heart desires.....Coz if she does not get what she want's she starts crying and then I give it to her coz her crying is worse...I don't think I do this because some times I do say NO and my NO is my NO.
She's just been an angel for over a week now and I thought she deserved it.
He said what about the other kids ? He say's it's not right towards them.
So every time Ne gets something they must get something ? Maybe I am wrong if I am please tell me. Yes G buys sweets and always for Ne as well, he wont just buy for his kids.
Nou wat nou gemaak ?
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