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03 Apr 2006

need advice and answers regarding husband
my husband seems to change every other day one minute he'll tell me to get lost then the next he buys me gifts . he tells me that hi is going to sleep around then when i confronr him about it he'll deny that he ever said anything he lie to his mother and tell her i'm making up stories and am accusing him of things that he doesnt do. he had an affair last year but denies it to his mother now she berlieves that im a trouble maker i told that she can speak to the woman but she said that the woman will be lying. whenever i try to talk to him about something then he gets irrational and tell me that he dont love me and that o cant make him love me this while asking about something as simple as what he wants to eat. 5 min later he will expect me to be loving and smiling. sexually the is also a big problem he likes me to urinat on him or lick me while i urinate he sometimes rub his anus then dirty himself he seems to find pleasure in this
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cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Try hard to persuade him, politely but firmly, to join you in marriage counselling --- even if he sees it as a plan to deal with YOUR problems rather than his own. But I'm woried abou the pattern of behaviour you describ --- especially with the unusual sexual preferences, which suggest that he has odd ideas about relationships with women. If he refuses to work with you in counselling, think seriously about whether this marriage has any real value for you.
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