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11 Jul 2005

need help again - PLEASE!
My guy and I are together about 4yrs now.Over the past few months I noticed that he is putting me down alot. Like if I say something he will aks me why i said something so stupid.. or if I say something like - Oh i must make an appointment with the dentist or start eating well, he will say things like ag u say that all the time but never act on it so we will see.. Its breaking me down, I feel like i aint good enough for him. I spoke to him bout it last nite, he said sorry and said he doesn't know why he does that but now it seems like the problem is gone and that he is forgiven.. So now I dunno what to do and I would like some insight into why he is doing this.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, it was good to talk to him about this, so now keep an eye on the problem, and remind him, pleasantly, when he does it again. And meanwhile, I like ec's suggestion, to rather tell him AFTER you've done something like the appointment ( unless you're asking him to remind you to do it ) rather than before hand
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