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05 Feb 2004

Need love
Hi
Im in this relationship for the past 2 years but im not happy lately. I need to know from my partner that she cares about me deeply and love me but I dont get that from my gf. I dont know how she feels and she dont wanna talk about it. She used to be great at it. I need someone to share my secrets and deepest thoughts, she must be my best friend. I will give 150% of myself. Thats what Im doing now but it feels like Im wasting my time. Must i carry on with my life? But where will I get the dream girl?
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cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

WOL, You're dead right that what you need for a long-term hapopy relationship is someone who will be your best friend. Sometimes one can be too needy, and this switches off the other person. But if she used to communicate well and this has stopped, this implies some other change in her life, and the value of persisting in trying to talk about things. If you feel you're doing all the work, and she's not prepared to put in her fair share, and won't even discuss why not, it's hardly worth persisting in the effort, is it ?
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