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13 Nov 2006

no commitment to paying debt
hi all and anyone who can offer any form of advice on this one.

when i was retrenched a few of my things didnt get paid now since ive been temping ive been trying to get the stuff sorted, ive spoken to eveyone and they understand and have agreed to help under the curcumstances.

now i sit with the problem that i havent been able to stick to my promises coz my partner doesnt seem to understand what it means to keep a good name. every time i want to pay soething there is no money he says they must just wait and im saying screw that its my name. i get paid weekly and somehow my money gets used befor i can say anything. how do i get him to realise that this is serious to me. he is in major debt but says hey they must wait coz he cant do anything else. how do i get it into his head that that isnt the right attatude to have. my name is completly screwed and i cant fix it on my own but he just doesnt get it.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm sure others can advise usefully --- I'm useless on money matters
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