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08 Dec 2005

NOW I need your advice CS & everyone...
Hey everyone,
I have a slight problem and I have no idea what I should do... I have a male friend - I've known him for about 3 years. He calls me about 3 times a week and I e-mail him when I get the chance or sms whatever. He asked me if I would go to Margate with him, I agreed.
BUT
I met a guy, things are looking very good. Now my 3yr friend is upset about this. I don't think going on vacation with him is such a good idea, I think he wants more than friendship and I told him before that I would never be able to see him as more than a friend. And besides, I don't think this guy would like it very much if I go on holiday with other guys... Any advice, anyone?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm not sure what you're looking for, here. Going on holiday, as a friend, with a long0term and trusted friend, makes some sense ( and cancelling out so late is disappointing to him, inconvenient and may cost him wasted money. Going on holiday with someone you have only very recently met and don't know well, just because he seems to be dishy, isnt wise, is it ? And if he's such a new friend, why should it be up to him whether you go on holiday with an old friend ?
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