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08 Mar 2004

One night Stnad?????
Hi,
One week ago I went dancing, I saw this guy that was cute once before and he was there again....

We danced and started chatting that was nice, after a few drinks we started kissing and one thing led to another and I ended up in bed with him.........THIS WAS MY FIRST TIME TO HAVE SEX.......

We've been in contact, but recently he doesn't reply on any of my sms's. I'm very confused and emotionally connected to this guy, I really like him but I am to shy to open my mouth and to tell him how I feel about him....

I have never had a stable relationship and I know that I'm not ugly or fat and many ppl tell me that I have a great personality....

Please give me some advice!!!!!!!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Connie,
You know, surely, that you haven't been very wise, lately. Nonmatter how cure he was, having sex ( protected, I hope !) with a stranger you meet in a club is a Very bad IDea. That is not how one meets really nice guys who will be likely to respect and care for you. You're probably a very nice girl, but that's neither here nor there. He won't know how you feel unless you tell him, but if he hasn't tried to see you again, and isn't replying to your SMSs, it doesn't sound as if he's keen on the idea of a relationship.
he used you, and probably wants little or nothing more. That's sad, but learn from the experience, and be wiser next time you see a cute guy.
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