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09 Mar 2004

our relationship is going down the toilets!!!!!!!!!!
i've been in a relationship for 2 yrs.i am deeply in love with this man. he is my one & only luv.for the past few months we have been drifting apart.we dont as much time together alone as we used to.the only time i see him is at work.in the past we would make out anywhere ,anytime.now the only kisses i get are pecks on the cheek in the morning.he constantly picks on my past before i met him.everyday we argue bout something or the other.i am very unhappy .i wish he would be romantic..........is our honeymoon stage over or are we just over?please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear desparate,
Sounds like the honeymoon phase ( in terms of the uncritical bliss phase ) might be over, but there's no special reason why the relationship ought to be over. Why not consider taking part, together, in some relationship counselling, to identify any rocky areas in the relationship, and see about putting them right ? And in it, he could learn that your past belongs in the past -- his relationship is supposed to be with you NOW, and for the future, lot going backwards into the past.
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