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21 Jul 2005

partners history of cheating, chases women
my partner of almost 3 years has had a history of affairs during his marriage. i found out over a year ago he had another relationship the first year of ours. he admits he lies and seeks the attention of other women, i cant be sure he has crossed any lines but he seems to surround himself with women at work, wherever he goes. he lied to me about his past, his values, and i know he lies to these women to impress them. he learns about their interests, tells me about their physical attributes, but assures me he only has eyes for me and loves me. my friends say get out, but i cant let go. help !!! i am a strong woman, self supporting, but rather insecure these days with him and totally lacking trust. should i end it or keep hoping he means what he says??
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

So, he's a liar, a womanizer, with a long and cinsistent history of cheating on his women. Remind me why you think it's a great idea for you to stay with this guy ? You want to explore masochism, maybe ? Don 't keep hoping that suddenl, miraculously, his actions will start to match his fine words. Maybe you need a counsellor to help you look after your own needs.
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