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24 Nov 2005

P***ed off
Someone please tell me if I'm being demanding. My boyfriend and I dont see each other often and when I do get the opportunity I prefer him to come to my house. For the first time ever I've seen him for 2 weeks in a row (excepting weekends - because he works). I saw him on Monday at my house and Tuesday and Wednesday at the gym. Yesterday I asked him to come to my house and he said okay, we just spoke and he said that he wants to go to the gym and see me there. While we train we dont talk and have a 5min conversation in the car before he goes home at 6 and then I dont speak to him until the next morning because I'm studying. We have a mutual friend at work and when I told her that I'm upset with him she says I'm too demanding and am being stupid. He will be working standby from tomorrow until next week friday and I wont see him at all. Is it wrong that I want to see him today. Am I being too demanding. I get upset because she says I'm being demanind but she sees her boyfriend 3 times a day because they work in the same building and she doesnt know how it is not to see her b-friend. Is it wrong for me to be upset with him because he told me yesterday that I will come see me at home. I told him that I hurt my calf at the gym yesterday and wont be able to go, but it doesnt matter to him.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Maybe he's just not all that into you, and you are expecting more from him than nhe is prepared to give you
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