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02 Apr 2007

PERFECTIONIST PROBLEM...?????
Hi...Im not sure what exactly my problem is but...I have/had this wonderful, caring boyfriend...who goes out of his way to try & keep me happy...I just always seem to start an argument over anything...if someone happens to invite him to play sport etc. when we have no plans & Im invited with for eg. I have a fit, straight away I am miserable, start whining & telling him we shouldnt be together etc. Same goes if another girl sms' him a friendly message, I straight away go into panic mode & think hes cheating on, cause a huge big argument & end up in tears...this is happening more & more often & I cant control it. I know I act irrationally, I cant help it though. I sound like a spoilt brat that cant get its own way....but I love him so much, so why am I so nasty to him & difficult to be around. He is a bit of a loner, enjoys his own company, so I stress that he is going to leave me. Im not sure if it has anything to do with my ex of 5 years, leaving me & getting married 5days later - I had no clue he was even cheating on me, we lived together, i trusted him with all my heart. Now I cant trust my current boyfriend, even though he is so open with me & I honestly dont think he would cheat on me...just try make him feel that I think he is doing it.... Am I demented...what is my problem! Please help...
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01 Jan 0001

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