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18 Jul 2005

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Please help...i dont know what to do.....my fiance has been neglecting me the past few weeks and he also told me its because he is busy at work and with his studies, i must just be patient and things will get better. i went thru his fone on friday and found 2 sms to 2 girls, he deleted their smss, i found his replies in his sent box. the one he sent his email address to and the other was a longer msg that sounded like he misses her company and conversation at work. when i confronted him he was made coz i went thru his fone and said he deleted them so i wouldnt find them and freak out over nothing. i cant understand it when i questioned him about the girls he knew so much about them and if the smss were work related i would try to understand but they werent they were personal smss. he said they were just friends so i asked him if i can start having guy friends then and he said no. we are engaged, he is not supposed to give his number out to any girl...or am i wrong....i am so hurt and i want to move out...i just wont be able to believe him or trust him again...if i didnt find those sms on his fone, the smss would have continued behind my back....what should i do???
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Don't ever make the mistake of cutting off all your other riends when you fall in love --- no relationship prospers when it is made to be too exclusive.
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