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26 Jul 2005

Pls help me understand men!
I am dating 2 guys at the moment because neither of them have asked me to be their g/f yet and I enjoy spending time with both of them!! So, as far as I am concerned, I can date who I want, when I want.

I spent the whole weekend with, lets call him D. I then made plans to see the other one, lets call him G last night. While I was on the date with G, D calls me and I didnt answer. I called him back today and he asked me where I was that I didnt answer the phone. I told him I went for drinks. He then asked who with!! I said a friend. Now, what on earth has it got to do with him where I go, and with who I go with? He has no hold on me. He always has to know my whereabouts and it has got to a stage where I feel guilty about saying that I was with another guy.

Do you think I should feel guilty about this? In my books, if either one of them wants me to be their g/f, then they must ask me to be. In the meantime, I will go out with as many men as I want to. If I wait for either D or G to make a commitment, then I might be on my deathbed. What is a girl supposed to do?
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01 Jan 0001

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