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13 Dec 2004

pls help/give me advice me not to still hate my x who cheated on me, he got engaged while we still were boyfriend&girlfriend,actually still sleeping with me while already engaged to her
and they got married quickly after leaving me - i dont want to hate anymore&hate him for using me & throwing me away

how can i stop hating him and her? he's got it easy now, good work, money, while i stayed with him he had nothing. it is unfair that he used me and just threw me away like that, getting away with it all.

i cant move on, cant forget, please help
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01 Jan 0001

Take heart from Mindful's excellent message. See a counsellor if necessary, to deal with the hate issues, and congratulate yourself for your good luck in avoiding a deeper involvment with this rat.
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