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18 Jul 2008

PORN
MY HUSBAND SEEMS TO BE ADDICTED TO PORN. HE BUYS ADULT MOVIES. THESE RANGE FROM TEEN SEX TO SEX WITH ANIMALS. HE IS SELF EMPLOYED AND WHEN NOT WORKING HE IS SITTING HOME WATCHING THESE.
I FEEL DISGUSTED JUST THINKING ABOUT THIS. WE ARE BOTH IN EARLY 40s WITH TEEN KIDS.
HOW DO I APPROACH HIM
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Such an excessive interest in ANYTHING on DVD ( even if it was Disney cartoons ) would be a bad idea for someone self-employed, as it would reduce the amount of time spent on doing and developing whatever his self-employed work is. And his interest in more dubious material is a reasonable concern in a family with teenage kids ( and family pets !)
I agree with Anon#2 that this is primarily about bad habits, not specifically sexual. Consider, as suggested, developing more shared family activities, maybe encourage a concentration on how much work he has or hasn't got done within a day ( like a teenager and homework issues ) and consider some marriage counselling sessions to deal with the broader issues within your relationship with him.
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