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27 Jul 2005

Possibly pregnant
Cs, hope you are feeling better, I am sure the warmer weather is helping.

I am in trouble. I don't know what to do, I have been trying to deny the symptoms for some time now, but they are developing more and more. I was on the injection earlier this year, and went off it because of bad side effects. The Doc warned that it could take up to three months for my cycle to return to normal. Its three months later and still nothing. My breats are extremely tender and I am nauseous, head and abdomen aches etc.

I am terrified that I am pregnant. I am 22, living with bf. My dad will freak, I don't know how I will tell my parents and friends. I am not ready to be a mother, I know it sounds selfish, but I still have so much to do.We could not afford a kid anyway. We have been getting on so well altely, things are great, and now this.

I am to scared to even get the test.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Take it easy, nmun. I understand your alarms. I suppose pregnancy is a real possibility, though I'm not fully aware of all the effects of coming off the injection, especially when one has had some problems with it. Usually, I thought that in such a situation, the doc would warn you to use alternative forms of contraception until things had stabilized and some other method finally chosen. Look after yourself, and, if this is the case, you baby. Your dad will just have to come around to it, and may take it better than you think. Do a test, and maybe discuss the result with your doc, as they may also be a bit unreliable in the aftermath of the injection. Remember, though it's natural to feel a bit scared about taking such a test, that the test won't cause anything to happen --- it'll only give you the advantage of knowing more about what IS happening. And this might still be due to coming off the injection.
If it does turn out to be a pregnancy, you will cope with this, and work with a counsellor for a couple of sessions, to help, if needed
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