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08 Dec 2004

pregnant, new house and very emotional
Doc, please help. I just found out that i am 8 weeks pregnant after trying for over 2 years. i have let the idea gone of ever having babies and now that i am pregnant, i just can't get to terms with it. we also bought a house a week ago and have moved in but i just have no interest in doing anything in the house. i don't want to be there. i also just seem to be fighting with my husband the whole time. please help me......
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

It can be awful not to get what you want, and then it can feel awful when you get what you want --- or what you wanted. Sounds like you really need to see a counsellor, urgently, to work through your different emotions in response to this unexpected discovery. And people who feel stressed by a situation that's new and hard to cope with, tend to squabbnle among themselves. Take a litle time now to work with the counsellor and come to terms with now having what you had wanted and worked for, for so long, and it's likely that you could soon end up enjoying and appreciating the experience you had wanted so much
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