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21 Jul 2005

Pressure Pressure, building up in me
Parents treating have this desire to control everything in my life from property, to salary to the girl I get.
They have an image of me as their perfectly raised son & I can see their pride when we are together on public.
I want to tell them to leave me alone since I'm 23 now.I just feel that I'm near explosion levels.They are very near to triggering that.I'm so frustrated.How can I solve this?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

At 23, why not just move out from home, and evade their interference, even if it means for a time finding a work-or other friend to stay with ? DON't shout it out when you're feeling very angry at them, but choose a quiet time when you can be calm, and explain how you feel, and that it is essential to you to be able to feel independent and not to be so controlled by them.
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