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13 Aug 2007

1,5 Year ago I found out that my husband phoned a prostitutes, he denied that he ever went there but there were 15 phone calls to the same prostitute in a years time. The thing is that I just can not get past it, our sex life is non existent because I dont want him near me on an intimate level, I know this will eventually destroy our marriage. Is there a way to wipe things like that out of your memory or will it be best to seperate and move on. For periods of time it feels that I am over it but something will just trigger it and I have to start all over again to get past it.
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01 Jan 0001

I'd also be puzzled about the 15 calls to the same woman. Its not a world I know well, but its hard to believe that she'd provide free conversation, as this would spoil her primary business. You don't need to wipe anything our of your memory, but rather to work on the issue itrepresents, so the memory no longer has the power to disturb you so much. Surely Marriage Counselling is what you both need ?
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