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28 Jun 2011

re: 934
Referring to post 934, I have the exact same problem but I have chosen not to become involved with him, but he is pushing a relationship so hard!! We get on really well but I know his kids will become an issue if we start a relationship. The twins are only 9 months old now and he is already saying he wants them to go to Crawford which is R40k a term = R160k a year x 2 (twins) and he doesnt know where he is going to get the money from. Therefore all his money is going to go to his kids. I dont have kids of my own and have chosen this route as I want freedom, to travel, just enjoy life. I dont want to saddled with someone else''s baggage! I have told him this, but he doesnt seem to think this is an issue....
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Let's commend him for his strong love for his kids, but recogniz that with such expensive plans for them, he's not at all a good bet for a close relationship. A friend, maybe, A friend who makes it clear she won't make loans for school fees !
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