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28 Jun 2011
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re: 934
Referring to post 934, I have the exact same problem but I have chosen not to become involved with him, but he is pushing a relationship so hard!! We get on really well but I know his kids will become an issue if we start a relationship. The twins are only 9 months old now and he is already saying he wants them to go to Crawford which is R40k a term = R160k a year x 2 (twins) and he doesnt know where he is going to get the money from. Therefore all his money is going to go to his kids. I dont have kids of my own and have chosen this route as I want freedom, to travel, just enjoy life. I dont want to saddled with someone else''s baggage! I have told him this, but he doesnt seem to think this is an issue....
CyberShrink
Let's commend him for his strong love for his kids, but recogniz that with such expensive plans for them, he's not at all a good bet for a close relationship. A friend, maybe, A friend who makes it clear she won't make loans for school fees !
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