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26 Jul 2005

RE: Abusive loveless marriage - thank you all
Subject: RE: Abusive loveless marriage
Posted by: Fransman
Thanks all incl u CS. Berry thanks for prayers. Deubel, though there are children, 2, I do not feel obliged to stay. My only worry is marriage in community of property and its implications. By the way, I am not in possession of any much estate. In fact due to her and trying to please and make her happy, I am deep in debt; we just bought our house, and the transfer will be complete by end of month. I cant wait to resell it immediately.

Purple, I hear you regarding among others doing something nice for her in the evenings. I have had enough of that. Why must I beg for love? I need someone with whom I will be spontaneous. love each other. it is not happening like that at the moment.

Thank you all.
Date: 26/7/2005
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01 Jan 0001

Hi Fransman,
hanks for the feedback, and do keep in contact. I think you're right, that you should never need to beg for love --- if it's only given in response to begging, then it isn't love, anyway. Obviously you also need a legal opinion --- presumably, in Community of Property, half the debts would be hers, too.
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