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02 Oct 2009

RE: Dating Problems
I wonder if all you kind people would be so kind as to assist me with the following problem i have. I am a bit overweight and i am trying my best to loose the weight. However i can' t seem to find a boyfriend. I mean i know not all guys like heavy chicks but i am sure there are some that don' t mind it at all. The other day i met a guy although against my parents will he is Nigerian and i am Greek and we were having a wonderful conversation when he immediately asked me if we were going to have Sex and i said there is no way that that is going to happen any time soon because i barely know him. So i sent him a message that things between us is not going to work and therefore he did not contact me again. I do this with interested guys they say something wrong and i just tell them straight off. Do you perhaps think i should tell them that i don' t like them talking about certain things or is it best to send an sms and tell them i am not interested. I am really confused and emotional about this because comes the weekend i lock myself in my room and that is where i stay because i don' t want to go out alone anymore and not be in love. Please help...
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Locking yourself in your room will not hlp you lose weight. And it is not a sin to be alone at times, and not compulsory to be in love
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