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04 Jul 2005

RE: Update Anxious to know
As I promised to give you regular feedback I just thought I should let you know that we discussed the issue of staying together and me with my roommate. He seems to understand my situation but he's has done nothing about it. As much as I enjoy spending time with him now what do I do cause since he's been at my place. We went away over the weekend and we came back last nite obvious we had to sleep at my place. I left earlier on for work and he was still there. I really enjoy having him around but Im thinking of my roommate as well. I wish I can ask him to give me some space but deep down my heart I know it wont be what I want. What must I do???????
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sometimes we think we have discussed something with a bloke like him, but he wasn't really listening or taking the message seriously. Sometimes he pracices Denial, and tries to ignore any uncomfortable reality, so he may try to just hang in there and hope you'll change your mind. Stick to it, repeat the discussion, reasonably, but firmly, and get him to understand that he needs to make alternative arrangements.
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