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18 Apr 2006

RE:CONFUSED
I am divorced and the thing is my ex husband was planning to be
married in a month. They broke up and now he is turning my side.
I still got feelings for him. Everybody is begging me not to take him back. I feel very much still attracted to him what should i do.

It would be a mistake to take him back for the third time. We got a three yr old daughter.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

It would indeed probably be a mistake to take him back, especially for a third time --- surely there were good reas0ns why you broke up with him before, and more than once ? Its not as if you have worked together in relationship counselling to see if it was posible to sort out whatever the major problems were, so they are likely to recur. And this idea is especially unwise on the rebound, when he suddenly remembers you only after his other planned marriage fell through. And think about why it fell through --- with s9o many failed relationships behind him, is it really likely to work out on yet another try ?
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