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06 Dec 2004

relationship with a married man for 4 years
hi, i'm in a relationship with this man for 4 years, he has 2 kids, we love each other so much, and he does everything for me, but he still lives with his wife, please advise me
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Wat are you expecting ? Isn't he using you, as most maried men having affairs, are ? If he hasn't ended his marriage after these 4 years, he's not going to, and he is probably content to remain with his wife and children. Why have you backed yourself into such a sdead-end relationship, when you deserve so much more ?
Married men rarely leave a wife for a mistress, and if they do, they generally seek out a fresh mistress, and are as unfaithful the second time round.
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