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08 Dec 2004
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Relationships
Hi Doc
I was married for 14yrs and my ex cheated on me with several woman and treated me with no respect at all. I now have a new man in my life and have fallen in love with him , we have been together for a year now, he is really wonderful and he says he feels the same and said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me , he has one child and is also divorced , i dont know if i am being to sensitive but i sometimes have my doubts because when he is with his friends or child it almost seems as if i dont exist and if he cant be with me then it does not seem to bother him , he has even broken a few promises that he has made to me and cannot commit to anything that we plan just incase something else is going to come up with friends or his child , i dont know if i am walking into another bad relationship and am really scared.
I was married for 14yrs and my ex cheated on me with several woman and treated me with no respect at all. I now have a new man in my life and have fallen in love with him , we have been together for a year now, he is really wonderful and he says he feels the same and said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me , he has one child and is also divorced , i dont know if i am being to sensitive but i sometimes have my doubts because when he is with his friends or child it almost seems as if i dont exist and if he cant be with me then it does not seem to bother him , he has even broken a few promises that he has made to me and cannot commit to anything that we plan just incase something else is going to come up with friends or his child , i dont know if i am walking into another bad relationship and am really scared.
CyberShrink
aybe your previopus bad experiences have left you a bit over-sensitive in regard to this relationship ? YOu could usefully consider pre0marital or relationship counselling to help sort this out. As Shaun says, start by talking this through with the guy
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