Dear Kevin,
Sadly, some people who call themselves Christians, are exceedingly narrow-minded and uncharitable towards others, and include homophobia among their prejudices. I say "call themselves" because my understanding was that according to the Bible, Christ set an outstanding example of charity and lack of prejudice, and being non-judgemental, , and it sems sad that those who most loudly announce that they follow Him, so often so conspicuously fail to follow His most excellent example in this respect.
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