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02 Mar 2004

I've been going out with this guy and he got married while we were still involved, he's hurt me several times even b4 he got married, I saw him 4 the first time last week after he got married and he told me that he wants me back and regrets ever marrying his wife, I told him that I don't want him anymore and he must stop calling me at work, he said it's impossible. I told him that I'm gonna change my work telephone numbers, and he said he'll track me down, so now I'm thinking of teaching this him a lesson, I wrote a letter 2 his wife and mailed it 2day, I want her 2 know what a real dog her husband is, he even tried 2 have sex with me and I refused, I'm just tired of him, did I do the right thing by writting the letter.......
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01 Jan 0001

Dear Tia,
If he hurt you several times before the final insulting hurtfulness, then you're very well rid of him. And now he wants to cheat on his brand-new wife, and re-enter your life. If he persists in harassing you, get a restraining order to forbid him from doing so.
I gather that you hav alrady posted the letter, so we can't advise you not to do it. It's sad that you've joined him in hurting his innocent wife. It would hav been better not to have done so.
Let us know in a fresh posting, what happens. Revenge is never as sweet in reality as it seems sure to be when we're planning it. The best revenge on the hound, is to forget him and have a truly happy life without him.
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