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12 Nov 2004

scared of hiv
Me and my fiancee are having un-protected sex, we both went to have HIV TEST which came back neg. I am very scared what if he is having an affair outside and contracts hiv.?.he is also very scared to get aids too,I trust him but yu know you can not trust a person that much.now i suggested that we go again every 3 months for tests, and i know he does not like this. what should I do?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

OK, you're both HIV negative right now. Using condoms would lessen any other risk --- but isn;t the real problem hwere, that you are engaged to marry this man, and you're scared that he could be having an affair ? If he's as scared of HIV as you are, why would he want to even think of having an ffair and running that risk ? You need lmarriage counselling / pre-marriage counselling, to gain confidence in each other, before going ahead with a marriage under these circumstances. WOuld you plan 3-monthly HIV tests for the next 30 years ?
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