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03 Aug 2008

Seem to be attracting wrong guys...

I am young single lady (ready for a serious committed relationship), but I seem to be attracting guys that are already attached i.e married (will never even entertain them in any way), guys who have already paid lobola, staying with baby momma' s. Is there something that I am doing unaware to be bringing this onto myself?
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01 Jan 0001

Hi Flower,
I hope other readers can give you useful responses based on their own experience --- I generally am not troubled by attracting the wrong sort of guys. :} It could be that you have just been unlucky in meeting predatory guys who are looking for someone as a supplement to their existing relationship ( which are, of course, no use to you ). Its possible, I suppose, that you are looking in the wrong places, or in some way suggesting to them that you may be available to them, in ways you are not recognizing --- a personal counsellor could help you to clarify that
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