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30 Mar 2007

sex addict II
Having read Nick, Estelle, Candy etc.. and the answers to my problem way back about 60 questions ago, I've come to the conclusion that love is love and sex is sex. So now i have a new problem I love my wife more than heaven and earth itself, BUT need sex constantly. Both of these statements are non-negotiable. My wife is a twice a month girl. I'm a twice a day boy.
I will not leave my wife, cannot tell her for fear of her leaving, have tried to talk to her about her lack of sex drive (or my abnormal one) what do you do ???
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

No, don't get trapped by the way you use language. You do NOT "need sex constantly" --- nobody does. Maybe you WANT it constantly, or think about it very frequently, but that's far from the same as NEEDING it. Now, there's room for lots of useful compromise between twice a month and twice a day, and this is where mariage counselling could help you two to find a compromise which suits both of you better than the current situation.
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