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02 Mar 2004

She doesnt love me no more
Me and my ex-girl were together for 3 years. She came from a broken home and this affected our relationship heavily. She always seemed to doubt herself and had issues with self confidence. Anyway, alot of outside factors lead to the end of our relationship a few months ago. She met someone else and has known this other guy for 5 months. They are now together for 2 months and she decided to move in with him, because she could not live in her parents house anymore. Her mom is a alcoholic and is very abusive. I love this girl with all my heart and i want her back. I told her this and she said i am confusing her. I dont know if she loves this new guy and all i want is to have her back. I know she lovd me very much. I just want to know if i should give up and face the truth?
I am a broken man, and i have thought about suicide.....

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear BH,
Suicide, of course, is no answer. At most, it is one of the questions. I wonder whether you have sound reasons for doubting that she's fond of this other guy, or if it's mainly wishful thinking, because you're not over her yet ?
As the old saying goes, you have to set her free. If she comes back to you of her own free will, then there's love there, and the relationship could be more promising. But loving, on your side, means leaving her free to find love with another, and to be prepared to let go, and set yourself free to find someone with whom you can be even happier.
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