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07 Jan 2005

single, 39, dating site, fussy?
Got tired of being single and joined a dating site.....there are literally hundreds of men and i got many replies but when I look at the photos I know I won't be physically attracted to any of them!!

Whats wrong with me? I find most guys really not sexually atttractive at all.

I am not a beauty queen myself, but this dating site thing is very similar to real life situations : plenty of guys are interested in me but even though I find their company pleasant, there is no spark at all.

I am not frigid, nor lesbian....its just that only about 1% of guys get my juices flowing. That 1% is also not the hunky or attractive is just a something they have that makes physical contact wonderful instead of yuccky, as is the case with the other 99%.

Is this normal? Are other women less fussy? I know I am probably going to get replies telling me to be happy when a pleasant decent guy shows interest but really, that is not possible. There is a certain 'look' that gets a guy into the 'more-than-platonic' group and like I said, only 1 in a 100 seem to have that look and makes it possible for me to be physically attracted to them.

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01 Jan 0001

Surely internet dating is far better for the health of your liver, than the bar scene ?
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