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06 Dec 2004
Sister has been raped, wot must i do
My sister was raped a while ago and she is now staying with me. I think that I have done as much as I can 2 be there for her and to be supportive but at the same time I'm not really sure wot is expected of me so I donno that I've done enough. I live in a small place and as it would happen generally in these circumstances we are getting on each others feet. We had a disagreement about boundaries and respecting each other's space and property, she does not respect mine at all. We've had this kind of argument many many times before but she just carries on doing things that don't show respect. Am I supposed to let this slide because she's got so many other things 2 deal with? Am I being insensitive and a bad sister? Should I let her do what she wants until she's ok? Please help.
I hope she is seeing a counsellor ( and if not, she should be ) to work on getting over this awful experience. But that doesn't justify her being thoughtless and inconsiderate when sharing your home. You're not being a bad sister, and you're not being inconsiderate. Excellent responses rom emmem shaun and liza --- I fully agree. Talk it over with your sister, and negotiate a better balance.
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