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04 Feb 2009

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i hav an arqument with my boyfriend we exchange words the reason being he asked i' ve run out of petrol and he asked the car so he can go to work and promise to pour petrol of R100,when he came back that nite i appreiciated that,the nxt morning when he goes he gave me monie for our child (R300) usually he gave me R400 and i asked why R300 he say he uses R100 for petrol i was angry we then fight over that,so i smsd my friend to tell her about that and i tell my friend that the way i' m angry with him (boyfriend)it makes me think about the other guy who is proposing me i told her that im thinking of accepting his proposal even if its going to take a long time unfortunately i smsd it to my boyfriend.i was not aware until that afternoon he sms me that message i got suprised and started to panic i did not call or sms him,i dont knew what to do pls help,we usually fight over the childs money,what must i do from now
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

No need for a fight, bu a firm explanation of simple arithmatic. The maintenance money he must pay you for the child, is for the chil. The petrol he put in was petrol HE used for himself, and to pay for borrowing your car ( is he aware of what it would have cost him to hire a car for the day ? ) I don't understand what you did about SMSs etc. Maybe someone else can interpret that. And if he is reluctant to pay for his child, go to Maintenance court and have them set an amount he must pay,and then he HAS to pay.
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