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30 Jul 2006

So many a crap - in so short a time.
Wow. What a -|- ed up week-end. The visit with the parents actually went well, enjoyed it and enjoyed seeing the kid having a ball with grampa and -ma. Then Thursday I found out my good sms buddy is the worst kind of human excretion, she told the whole world the stuff I shared with her, in confidentiallity. For close to a year now I trusted her with very sensitive info, I know this girl well, she also has bipolar. The news, on several occasions, travelled from her - to her mother - to my mil - to my mother. God!, what a bored, depressing bunch. I almost hope she kills herself, she is prone to depression, and let me have my revenge without lifting a finger, except the sms's I have send telling her how I feel about the whole incident. So my mom is still loud and obnoxious, dad still likes his own voice but I think overall, they make an effort, and so should I. What's the worst that can happen? My husband told me last night he wants to wear women's clothes. I'm still recovering from the shock. We talked a while, but he didn't give me much detail on answers. I had a million q's, still have a million more. What triggers this behaviour CS? He was mos into BnD. I need to understand why guys would find that attractive / fun / representative of their lifes / personality / real self. Furtheron I'm fine. Actually, I'm not, and I'm amazed by the fact that I didn't join the barney army yet. Last night I could almost feel my sanity leaving me and only the empty shell, with heartbeat and breath, remain. That is not how I would like to end it.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, if you can have a -l- up weekend, in which a potentially difficult meeting with the parents actually went well, and you enjoyed it, that's not bad. OK, so your SMS buddy turned out to be disappointing. Maybe she thought she was only telling her mother, without realizing who ma would tell, and so on. Quite right, that your folks, while not perfet, seem to be trying, and so can you.
OK, then suddenly your husband teels you he wants to wear women's clothes ? I can well imagine you have a lot of questions for him ! In fact, its surprisingly common for men to enjoy wearing women's clothes, while being fully heterosexual and uninterested in becoming a woman in actuality. I haven't come across a woman who gets a kick out of wearing men's clothes. I wonder why ? : }
And if after all that you're fine --- well done ! The sanity will prsumably creep back and inhabit you again
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