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18 Jul 2005

So on edge.
My fiancé' and I have been fighting with each other over the past month. We seem to fight nearly everyday. I have been treating him badly and he has been treating me badly. He has been keeping secrets from me and I forgave him for it. Now we are giving our relationship one last try. I love him so much but cannot trust him. I still feel anger and resentment towards him. Although things are ok with us, I still feel so angry at him and feel like just telling him where to can go. There is obviously alot of tension between us and I cannot pretend to be nice to him and pretend to care for him when I am secretly feel angry because of the way he has hurt me. We both feel the tension and bcoz of this tension, I am afraid that I blow my top with him and then our relationship is over. We want to save our relationship but we can't even stand being in the same room as each other. A break sounds good but I have no other place to go and besides, I cannot kick him out of his own home. How do I overcome this tension? I have tried to get over it but I just cannot help the way I feel.
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01 Jan 0001

See a relationship counsellor, so yu can both give this "one last try" a good chance, either way
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