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12 Jan 2005

Stepparenting
Hi there all!

Any books to read that are good on this subject ?
Lulu's given a name but I cannot find it at Incredible books.

Monday nite the Porra sit marking clothes and pencils and me and the kids were playing in the lounge (me thinking i'm keeping them out his hair with Sony playstation) and now it comes out he thinks i'm neglecting him ?!?

He's the one that said "we" wont work if the kids dont like me ? They actually send me sms's sumtimes saying I LIKE YOU!!! I told him you should just have grabbed me by the ear and said come sit here !!

I dont wanna muck up so if there is a good book - please help ?

He's a joker and makes jokes about anything - there is no subject he does not joke about - he has made 2 in the last while about disabled kids and disabled parents - also Ne picks up black languages much easier than afrikaans and english he made a joke about there and her iq.... I did not find this funny at all and actually burst into tears..... He's promised to work on it and did not mean it as a reflectin on her.... wara wara..... So mens moet maar werk aan die dingetjies.....

SO THE BOOK CAN BENEFIT US BOTH I THINK!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

As they currrently have a 20 % off all books sale at Kalahari.net, check them out and search using the keyword "Step-parenting", and maybe also step-parent, step-mother, etc. And try the Exclusivebooks.com website, too, as it shows far more books than are on the selves at any one store, and you can buy a boook online through them and have it delivered free to your nearest store for pick-up, or by courier to your home at modest cost.
And by the way, I like the conclusion to Inc's message ! Maybe he needed some gentle teasing about being so competitive with his own kids ! And lulu, I kinda like the idea of your hair going out to her --- sounds even more sincere, in a way !
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