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20 Oct 2009

Stiefma vs bioma
Hoe kan mens die ongemaklikheid oplos tussen biomoms en Stiefma' s. Dit gaan tog oor die kinders en nie oor die grootmense se gevoelens nie. As die grootmense leer om saam te werk, sal dit nie ten gunste van die kinders wees nie. Die kinders sal altyd liewer wees vir hul regte ma' s, maar ons kan daar wees om die bio ma' s te help. Of wat is die plek van die stiefma' s? Moet ons betrokke wees, of liewer ontrek aan die kinders?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm not sure these are issues on which we can draw up universal laws, rather than deciding on a case-by-case basis. Obviously the adults should try acting like adults, and think of what would be best for the children, rather than being selfish about such issues. And if they can't sort it out between themselves, maybe working with a family counsellor ( eg through FAMSA ) might help.
Of course it's not easy being a stiefma if it was easy, just anybody could do it. Try to keep whatever issues remain between the adults separate and between them, not letting it affect the kids
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