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01 Feb 2004

Still me.....
Hi Doc!

Yup, it's me again. Same girl, this time, another problem. The girl I told u about last tiime, we're startin to be very good friends. Sumhow, her ex (that cheated on her with a whore, 2 times) got her new cell number, and started callin her again. By that time, she was sort of over him. Now, Friday nite, we went out, and had a BIG jol. Last nite, i was at the local pool bar, and thought about her the whole time, donno why, and geuss who shows up there: THE SAME GIRL, WITH HER EX!!!!!!!
She's playing a very dangerous game, becuz she's starting to get on my nerves, and the ex is not the kinda guy u shud take up lightly.

She says to me, she still loves him, which i can understand in a manner. But there's nothing between them anymore. Maybe she knows it, but maybe the ex is too thick-headed to get the message.

What the hell shud i do ? I feel like i'm gonna go crazy!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Citizen X, it's NOT your problem ! If your friend chooses to be silly about returning to her Ex who may at any time infect her with HIV, or whatever elswe he's picked up on the street buffet, that's foolish of her, and she doesn't sound as if she understands what love is ; but it's really neither up to you to solve her problems ( or prevent them ) nor could you do so, if you tried. So, don't go crazy just yet ; let her learn whatever lessons she seems determined to expose herself to ; and at least YOU can learn those lessons yourself, and apply them to your own life, without having to duplicate her foolish decisions and actions.
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