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30 Nov 2005

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Thanks for all the support guys. This is the most difficult time.

As you can imagine my day has been filled with guilt trips from him blaming me for stufing up her life because i am depriving her of a father and MILLIONS of rands from her grandparents. I am saying to him that if they loved her and cared for her like they say they do they would not deprive her fo the education and the MILLIONS! I also said to him that he can make it easier for her or make it harder for her, the choice is his. He can choose what he wants to do.

I know i am doing the right thing for myself and my daughter. How do i get them off my back and get them to leave me alone. Or do i just have to suck up all these threats and blackmail and guilt trips that they are putting me through.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If they CARE for her, genuinely, then whether you divorce or not, of course they would greatly want to help your child. If they don't do so, they'll show that generosity and love have nothing to do with their actions, and that they only want to use their wealth to manipulate people. If you stop communicating with them, change your cellphone number, then they won;t be able to manipualte you more
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